Philosophy of love

Love, everyone must have fallen in love. No one can escape from it and why should we escape from love? What is love?

Let us analyze it from my point of view.

At the beginning, it was said that there was only Adam and Eve on the earth. But did Adam love Eve or did the vice versa happen? Or was there any compromise between them since they were the only persons on earth? I won’t be able to answer this question and neither will you be able to do so.

Just suppose that there was really a compromise between them, then it means that compromise is a strong factor of love. But have you ever made up a compromise and end up loving someone? Most of you will reply negatively, but why so?

You have parents and relatives who know you since your birth. Just imagine that someone love you. That someone does not know you as much as your parents but he/she loves you as much as or even more than them. And one day, he/she confesses his/her love to you. What will you do? Some might say yes, while other might reply negatively.

Why might some of you say yes? There may be several cases. It may be that you are really impressed by that person’s love and that you start loving him/her .It may also be that you don’t want to break that person’s heart. It may also be that you want to compromise with that person and give him/her a chance to really prove his/her love for you. Or maybe you say yes just not face a heavy conscience of breaking someone’s heart because you have been heart broken in the past and you know how it feels.

And now, we’ll see why some of you might say no. Here also, several possibilities exist. Some look at the physical appearance of that person and then reject him/her because they want someone handsome/sexy; some are already in love; some make excuses of already being in love with someone else; and there exist also some who are in search of their “charming prince” or “dream girl”; I wish those people good luck and hope that they meet their “charming prince” or “dream girl” while fetching their pension one day!!!! Hey guys and girls, stop searching for the ideal person because maybe that the person whom you are searching is just in front of you but you have not seen him/her from that point of view. But that does not mean that you should start looking at everyone from that point of view!!!!!

To confess one’s love is really a difficult task for some. But why so? Why do you go on telling everyone that you love someone, but you don’t get the guts to tell that person that you love him/her? There’s logic behind this. When you love someone and when time comes to confess your love, you’ll have some disturbing questions on your mind. Some of the questions are as follows: “am I enough handsome/pretty for her/him?”, “ is this the right time to confess?”, “ from where will I start?”, “ how will she react?”…… and so on.

From my past experience and that of my friends, I can say that by thinking too much about these questions, we are simply losing time, courage and the chances of being successful. In fact, it’s not that easy to not think about these questions and I’m sure that only the minority of you might have been able to do so. But why is so difficult? It’s just that when you love someone and that you’ve yet to confess your love, you’ll always have the fear that she/he may not accept you. But I think that you should wipe off this fear from your mind, because you might lose your self-confidence, and this will not help you at all. You must always be confident when you confess your love and although it is difficult, try to look at that person in his/her eyes- this might show your sincerity(if you are really sincere!!!!!)

All those who have been in love, must have noticed a change in them. There might have been a change in their taste, in their behaviour, in their perception of life. I know a friend who has changed his tuitions for a girl, another has changed his style and looks, and there’s even one who used to hate classical music, but he has started to love it just because the girl he loves, really likes classical music!!!! It can be said that this change sometimes requires a sacrifice; and when you are in love, you ought to make sacrifices.

I’m sure that many of you have been heart broken, but that’s not the end of the world, is it? Love will come many times but true love will come only once. So just forget the past but remember the lesson that you might have learn from that experience because at every stage of life we learn new things that we should keep in mind so as to construct a better tomorrow. If you don’t get your love, just think positively and look forward to the future. Live every moment with a smile and not tears.

Life is meant to be lived and love brings taste to life, so just love, love and love